Strong Doesn’t Mean Invincible

People love to call leaders “strong.” It sounds flattering, but it can be a trap.

When you’re the one others always depend on, you start to believe you have to keep that image intact at all costs. You convince yourself that you can’t admit exhaustion, you can’t reveal doubt, and you can’t falter because everyone assumes you won’t.

I’ve lived that version of strong.

Strength carried me, yes. But the silence that came with it nearly broke me. When people think you’re invincible, they stop checking in. They assume you’re fine because you look fine. Behind the scenes, you may be unraveling while still showing up polished and “together.”

The truth is simple:

• You can be competent and still be exhausted.

• You can be capable and still grieve.

• You can be steady and still anxious.

I used to think leadership meant absorbing pressure until I cracked behind closed doors. What I’ve learned is that real leadership isn’t about hiding the cost. It’s about honesty. It’s about having the courage to ask for help. It’s about setting limits that protect your humanity so you can keep showing up with integrity.

I am no less of a leader when I say no. Neither are you. In fact, those boundaries make us better leaders because they model what sustainable strength actually looks like.

This week’s reflection:

• Where have you mistaken endurance for strength?

• What would it look like to lead honestly instead of protecting an image?

👉 Leadership doesn’t require invincibility. It requires integrity and presence.

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